Love Always - Coach J
When we are unclear about someone's position I have learned that by asking questions you can get a better feel for where they are coming from. With the definition of confrontation being a hostile or argumentative disagreement I do not endorse that, however I do endorse speaking up when something feels out of synch. In that case you do need to confront it, raise, it, call it out. This does not mean it needs to happen in an argumentative fashion. You can begin by calling it out as you see it, then ask the other party what drove them to their decision and seek understanding. Do not be passive, do not be aggressive, be interested and listen with no investment in your position. See what you can learn and what you can clarify to overcome any potential conflict that could result from confrontation.
Love Always - Coach J
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