Love Always - Coach J
If you know me you know I like to be in control. I like to be strategic, and thought out. I don't like to waste time and I can be perceived as impatient. Recently I have had the most beautiful out of control feeling. It is fed by having people around me that are focused on where they are heading, and taking the steps to achieve positive goals. The more I allow these people into my world the more unexpected events are arising and they are wonderful. I am enjoying the lack of control and foresight. It feels great to have others around me throwing inspirational and remarkable ideas at me at 100 miles per second. When your universe is in alignment you do not need to be in control.
Love Always - Coach J
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Have you ever heard "time heals all wounds"? In my experience I can say time has numbed certain wounds, but I have felt true healing through communication. Being able to share my perspective and driving factors to my behavior, and being open, objective, and honest in hearing the other side of my perceived pain. I know you won't always have a chance to have two way communication to clear your pain. I have some wounds that only have time to numb as there can never be a true communication with another either do to death, life, or other circumstances. I will say fight for the opportunity to clear the air, hear and be heard and truly heal through communication. Love Always - Coach J Recently I was expressing my pain to a loved one. My pain is from an not having a good connection with them and my desire to be more involved in their life. Not to have control or input but simply to have a connection and be someone they keep in touch with - we had not spoken in quite a while. I noticed the their tone changed from defensiveness to understanding when I was expressing my perception and I said "This is not judgment of you or your actions, I am simply expressing my pain". From my reality this is all that I was expressing - my pain, I was not judging their action or lack of action, I was truly expressing the pain I felt from not being connected. I want no control, no input, simply to be connected with and made aware of their safety and well being. Pain comes in many ways and we express it in many ways. Make sure when there comes a time to share your pain that you bring it from that place and not a place of anger or judgment. I hope this serves you well as times of difficulty are few and far between but amplify our emotions making it hard to be objective. Love Always - Coach J Do you know the feeling when you are witnessing classic art in it's purest form? I mean watching a dancer dance with their soul, a painting that you cannot look away from, a photograph that has layers, shades and depth. How about Baroque, Rock, Blues, or Hip Hop? When the artist is in tuned with their essence there is no mistaking the art. Whether you enjoy the medium or not you can recognize the art. I am grateful to align and experience these artists in their element sharing their gift with the world. Love Always - Coach J Look for ways to serve others. I have never felt more accomplished in my work or more fulfilled in my pursuits until I learned to align with what I love and learn how to serve others through it. I always found success financially by serving others so I understood how important service is. The difference was learning to apply what I love to the service I was providing. I know many great people that serve selflessly but are not fulfilled. Self align with your passion and your joy - then serve. You must be energized to serve at the highest level. Serve others by serving yourself like royalty. Love Always - Coach J What would it mean if your every movement, word and communication was the exact representation of the message you want to share with the world? It would mean being intentional, decisive and conscious. Then you would truly be the personification of your message. Visit Scott Stratten's UnMarketing today - right now! (hit the button below) Love Always - Coach J Do you know a person that waits until the last minute to do some task that have known about for sometime and at the final hour they begin to spaz out and rush to get it done? They realize it will take input and support from others so they try to push your agenda to fit their rushed schedule. You have a choice here - to be helpful to the best of your ability and to have a frank conversation with them regarding your need to stay productive and point out how their behavior is effecting you. Within the framework of this hopefully they will see they are harming others and will correct based on that. If they do not at least next time they know how you feel about it and will not bring their stress to you. If you point this out and continue to assist ask yourself if you are simply enabling this behavior - remember it is not what you say but what you do (or don't do). Bottom line learn how to interact with the fire drill offender and don't be that person - we all appreciate that. Love Always - Coach J When you wake up early to make their breakfast, when you kiss their mother, when you make every game and practice, when you leave for the office and return home the same time every day.... They are watching. If you smile when you arrive, if you help without being asked, if you take time to listen even when you don't want to, if you are honest regardless of the discomfort in an effort to make an improved outcome... They are watching. You are a leader - you are an example at all times. We try to look at others as role models and leaders but we all fall and we all lead. Let the majority of your actions show the content of your character. One mistake can erase a thousand good deeds. Walk in a light that you wish to be seen in - and then no ones opinion of you matters much. Love Always - Coach J Have your own dress code. Understand what you are going for and know what works with your body type. With that said - over dress for any occasion and be comfortable with it! Also know how to look regal in your jeans and a clean tee shirt. Have your style - and own it. Now you know you are lookin good! Love Always - Coach J |
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