Love Always - Coach J
Tigers are amazing cats. They are loyal, and protective. They stay with their family and are nurturing. Let us not forget Tigers are instinctual animals. Along this line people are also instinctual animals - or mammals - or whatever you want to call it to wrap your head around it. The point is if they can be loyal and loving and also protective to the point of harming any threat - why then should we be viewed any different? When my family or loved ones are threatened I will use the instinctual tools to protect them. For some the instinct is to find logical and factual words to express themselves, for others they may feel the need to have a physical outburst, and some simply need to roar. Check your heart and intent and make sure you reaction matches the threat. And sometimes a Tiger has just got to roar! Live fulfilled and passionate. With no intent or action of harm or dismay. Let your acts come from abundant love and your roar will be a song of beauty.
Love Always - Coach J
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Nothing like a good tractor pull to bring me some good business/life lessons. If we lead by showing direction and look at where we are going others will follow = pulling as leaders in place of pushing. It is so important to balance your load and keep traction for momentum. When we focus on the wrong things we get dis traction. We lose traction. Let me know what comes to mind for you. Love Always - Coach J Yesterday I laid out how feeling alone or vulnerable can effect your decisions. Feelings effect you in the moment. We live our lives in a way to avoid certain feelings, we will go out of our way to make sure we do not endure emotional dips into discomfort. And honestly we do not seek out continuous spikes into euphoria. The thing is that extreme emotion usually comes with a certain amount of uncertainty. An out of control, not knowing what is going to happen next is what allows our feelings to be amplified. I'll offer that feelings - whether extreme or not are simply your sonar for the places where your other senses cannot see. Trust your feelings, acknowledge your feelings. Then take action once you realize what it is you are feeling and how you want to feel next - whether you want more of what you are experiencing or less. Feelings help you see in the dark, do not rationalize your mind with logic to justify a choice you make that goes against your feelings. Feelings are instinctual, primal, and important. Get in tune with your self, your true authentic self. Love Always - Coach J We are all more comfortable and confident with someone we trust and love. Life can seem scary at times when we believe we are going it alone. You can look at this picture and see a dog looking at a little boy that even with his older pal that could be subject to harm. If we look closer we can see the dog is the one that is nervous, the dog is the one that is alone. Now if the boys cornered or scared the dog too much of course he will attack, however at this point the dog is alone and wishes he had a friend like the boy does. We look different, feel different, but we are all not too much different on our internal emotional level. Walk confidently, your friends are just around the corner. Love Always - Coach J How do you treat someone that you have been reaching out to but they are too busy to respond or even better they give you a less than favorable response? Do you keep the same kind, gentle demeanor that you reached out with? Or are you thickskulled like me and start to get impatient and eventually become a sarcastic baby just because you didn't get the response you wanted? Yes I can admit sometimes I am a jerk - the action item for me is realizing it sooner and adjusting as close to in the moment as possible! Avoid letting your expectation of response effect your level of caring and kindness. Fair enough? Be Awesome - I know you are... Stop hiding it! Love Always - Coach J Do you know someone radiant? Someone just naturally beautiful? They seem to glow and have the warm energy that lightens your load every time you see them? There are a few angels like that on our earth. I have the privilege of being married to one. You know what is interesting about people like this to me? They don't necessarily strut of showcase their beauty, they just are. They don't need to flaunt it, they don't seek recognition - and that is part of their beauty. This is simply how they are, how they were created and all they know how to be. Show those beautiful colors, be you without having to stress it and tap that inner strength to bring the glow of love to everything you interact with. Love Always - Coach J If you have a hard time being thankful each day I offer one solution that really works for me. When you feel down, upset, depressed, pinned in a corner - or some other type of self serving self pity party simply take a moment before you eat and realize there are many without. Some with nothing. Even if what you are about to partake in is not the finest of meals, please realize the simple act of sustaining your body through eating is a miracle in itself. A meal is a prayer for your body. Be happy, be pleased, and be grateful / thankful. Love Always - Coach J Some of my posts have not been saving properly - even after I go back and check them after I post... I'll see what I can do to get this remedied team. Just know any post that didn't make it wasn't my best work anyway - nothing ground breaking was missed... Except yesterdays - I thought that one was pretty good. Keep lovin', keep writing, and live life today! Love Always - Coach J |
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